What do the happy couples do to make their relationship above average, memorable and sweet (spicy too)?
Secrets of being in the happy relationship.People always finding happiness into a great relationship, “the perfect partner you got, the stronger relationship you have, the strong relation you have, the key to happiness in your hand”
Here are few things which would do the MAGIC!! Or make an addition to your goals of being happy together “forever”.
Her birthday is coming? Has he achieved his target in office? Did you learn something new, guitar, spanish language, dance?
Celebrate those achievements with proper gifts, chocolates and memory making ideas.
Making a collage of your picture, giving small yet many many gifts, captuing those real moments and sending it through social media. Yess !! These kind of things makes your day even better when you are busy at work. You get tagged, you get postcards, you get courier, you have a gift hidden in you bag (obviously,along with a sweet message)
Soo, Go for it!! Create your memory vault.
2. Kiss always finds a way !!
Get rid of those pecks and get serious with the kisses. As couples become comfortable with each other, kisses can become lame.You will find that as you pay attention to your kissing and let your partner know that you enjoy kissing them, you will both feel better about your relationship.The next time the two of you greet each other, enjoy your kiss and do not be so quick to stop, be passionate and make it long last, atleast a bit more than the normal ones.
3. Make your better half feel warm.
While watching a movie or any show at home, go along with your blanket, sit beside her and cover her up inside you and your blanket, because it is “Cuddle time”.
Cuddling makes your day even better and happier.
Girls love it , and along with time men also start to feel the importance of cuddling (if they don’t know). It just makes you even more closer.
4. Take Responsibility, spilt it into two !!
Simply say, that “I wanna help you today”, then it is up to them that they need your help or not. But saying it shows “The responsible side” of you. Whether dating or married, weekends are always full of errands and chores. If you find that on the weekend things are lopsided, act a bit responsible and sort your way out. This gesture will show your partner that you really care by sacrificing your time and you really are into him/her. Acting responsible now and then just makes you even better and smarter in your partner’s eyes.
5. Kindness has its place !!
Summer is here, If your husband or boyfriend is out working on the car on a hot summer day, make some cold coffee and cookies and take it to him, giving him a gentle kiss. If your wife or girlfriend has been working at the computer all day, walk up behind her and massage her shoulders, back and neck. So You get the idea, right??
Unbelievably, kindness is often over simplified. Even good relationships can lack acts of kindness.Sweet simple acts of kindness can have huge impacts on a relationship. Take a look at the situation from his/her loint of view, and see what you can add up to it ans make it better. Then, just do it !!
6. Genuinely Showing your “Love”
No doubt, “I Love You” has its special place, but show8ng love in different creative ways is what is required to spark up your relationship. Do some thoughtful acts like-
-Watch cricket with him.
– Help her in kitchen.
-Rent his favorite movie.
– Go shopping for grocery with her.
– Hand him the towel,after shower.
– Make her some coffee when she is tired.
– Help him with his work.
– Drop her to work, with a chocolate and tight morning hug.
– Ladies, Take him out to lunch.
– Display your favorite picture of the two of you on the refrigerator.
– Write a letter to him/her and hide it in a noticable place.
7. Yes, act like a TEAM.
Teamwork always does the work. Because you don’t watch each other fall. Instead you help each other out and become the best version of yourself.
Not just in relationships, but teamwork is good in all walks of life. It just reduces your pressure, acts as a motivator and chuncks up the work.
So team up with your partner amd make him/her feel that you are always by their side (come what may). I mean, “Thats the essence of a relationship dude”.
8. Try to “Listen”
Two ears, one mouth. The funda is simple- speak less, LISTEN more. Get that saying into your love life. And not the kind of listening that you do when you go out or sit at the dinner table, but a different kind of listening. Have you ever overheard your partner make a comment to a friend or family member about something they really want or want to do? Maybe you heard some cool stuffs that he/she would like to do? For no reason whatsoever, make a special effort to get that for him. Paying attention brings out many things into your notice, which you earlier didn’t think of. Your patner will get surprised with this kind of gesture and will be happy for a long time( if not, then at least for a day, which is enough to win him/her).
So be calm, and do the act of listening soulfully, once in a while atleast.
9.Make HIM Feel Good
Yes !! You should do this once ina while to keep up your relationship .For the man in your life, for making him feel special here are a few things:
– Compliment him lavishly and whole heartdly.
– Flirt with him in public places. This builds up a cozy-comfy feeling.
– Don’t forget to tell him how sexy he is !
– Act jealous once in awhile, even if you are not. Thats Important.
– Tell him how charming you find him.
– Remind him that he is a wonderful mate, husband, father,partner, whichever applies.
10. Make HER Feel Good
Just like men, woman love feeling good about themselves. Add these suggestions to your list :
– Tell her how beautiful she is
– Compliment her on her skills and talent.
– Women are emotional, so tell her how much she means to you. Make her feel good.
– Let her know that she is your girl, your friend, partner,helper.
– Be kind to her in front of family and friends.
– Give her “sexy as well as sweet”compliment at the same time.
11. Couples who love yo TREAT themselves.
Go have your food together with no special reason, just because she says “I’m tired today to do any stuff”. Tell her that you wanna eat some roadside food in the evening, and take her to a Good restaurant and make her day. Treat her with courtesy, treat her happiness and just enjoy being together.
12. Greetings and small gifts goes a long way.
Yess !! Give him/her small gifts. Small yet memorable (or according to the situation). These kind of gestures stays a long way in the “Memory vault”.
Remember those small gifts which they show in movies- “as flashback of memories”. It is because that actually does the work and you make a special place in the centre of his/her heart❤.
This is it for now !!
Go spend some happy time with your partner. Or just tedt him/her rightaway, coz reading this made you remind of them.
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