π«”Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: “What, you too?” I Thought I was the only one.”π« – C.S. Lewis
Best Friends are lifeβ€. They act like your brother, sister, father, mother everyone as and when the time demands. (I’m remembered of my old college days when our best friend used to turn into our relative for the parents-teachers meet π (Couldn’t resist myself. Alright, no more jokes). Having a best friend boosts your resilience a lot. People who have better friendship qualities, shows a higher level of resilience in their overall life performance.
- Having a best friend of opposite sex:
Believe me! That’s awesome! (And you might be already having one, so you can definitely relate with me). And if you are not good with the opposite sex then this definitely helps you to improve your thought process and understand them better. You get to know them better and deeper (Its like using a wide lens to click a picture).π
“A Good Friend is like a four-leaf clover; hard to find and lucky to have” – Irish Proverb
2. When you have a best friend who is younger –
Here you get a chance to showcase your life experience and act as a mentor. You can inspire them in many different ways which in their age they don’t even know of. You are not just acting as a hero, but also helping them grow big in their early life stage.π
3. A Friend with same mental disorder π
A Best friend who shares the same interest as that of you then that’s pure gold. Sharing the same mental disorder and doing some really crazy stuffs is what sometimes you need to distress yourself. Acting crazy and chilled out is what keeps your inner child alive.
“Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. Its not something that you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven’t learned anything”. – Muhammad ali
4. A Friend who gives you a whole new perspective
Yeah, its true! Everyone has their own way of thinking and opinions when it comes to evaluating a particular situation. What is problematic for you, may be exciting for your friend. So yeahh, if that’s the case then discussing your problem with that friend has given you the KEY TO YOUR SOLUTION.πππ
5. Best Friend Forever (BFF’s). Yes! That’s what we are in constant search of.
We need best friends, we OBVIOUSLY do! But having a best friend who stays with you for a long long time is a pure bliss. A friend who never gets super angry on you, who constantly assists you, who supports you in your bad times. And whatever may be the situation, at the end of the day you are TOGETHER. They say if your friendship is more than 7 years, then it will last forever (And that’s completely true because by that time you have know most of the qualities and the flaws of your BFF and have accepted the way it is). So yess! CHEERS to all those long friendship you share!πΉ
6. Best friend is someone who you could always connect to – Day in and day out, 24*7.
Whether you have your best friend around you or in another time zone, just knowing that he/she is there provides you the comfort. Your confidence gets boosted up by 100% at least. He/she is just a call away, so pick your phone and make the call, it will give you a sense of connection and satisfaction.ππ
7. Secrets until you die.
When your best friend says, he/she will keep all the secrets until you die, then that’s cent percent true. Its like a circle, as long as you are alive, you are best friends. And as long as you are best friends, you don’t break the promises. (Unless and until things turn out ugly, but that’s an exceptional circumstance). They keep secrets so that they can threaten you whenever they want, for whatever they need (And that’s fair, they have all the rights to behave like that).π
8. They tell it as it is.
Whether its your clothes, your cold war with another friend, your shopping choice, or whatever for that matter, you always have an honest opinion by your side (No matter how harsh that may be to digest).
“Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend’s success.” – Oscar Wilde.
9. You get Over praised and pampered a lot more.
Yess!! Your best friend gives you the heartiest compliment ever, because that’s directly from their heart and not from their mind. They don’t judge you for the mistakes that happened along the way, they just praise you for your success (AND demand a BIG BIG party too). Why not, its time for celebration, isn’t it? And what best way than to party with your best buddy.πΉπ§
10. Call them 007 – Expert text decoders too.
Guys are the life saviour of women who often try to interpret the seemingly straightforward but cryptic texts from guys they are interested in. Why isnβt there a smiley face? Why is he acting strange? Why did he say βhey girlβΒ instead of just βhiβΒ? Why did he take two hours to respond to my text? Girls can be speculating about all sorts of scenarios and hidden meanings behind these texts, because they are natural over-thinkers.
And with guys, its completely vice-versa, one look is often all it takes. The reason behind this is simple: most guys have a very similar texting style. Chances are, a guy best friend of her would know right off the bat if the text is just a straightforward response or a quirky one.
So, either way your best friend has a solution for this too. Acting like an all rounder in your life (Sometimes, though).β€
11. Cherished moments.
You create a lot of memories along the way with your best friend, happy ones, sad ones, adventurous, crazy, insane, successful, party some, and a lot more. Time together is gone in flash of a second, a dear friend has departed, memories of good times are left, and you can never be that way again. However, life is full of people that need a good friend, and your dear friends would want nothing but the best for you. Cherish the moments you have with the ones you love and make new memories with others.
It is a pure blessing to have Best Friend in your life and if you don’t have at least one best friend in your life, I hope this article inspires you to open up to the next person you meet that tries to befriend you. Feel free to connect with everyone you meet with joy and happiness, it leaves great impact on the other person.
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Which point did you like the most? What is your Best friend’s quality? Share it in the comments section below. Feel free to bring your viewpoint up.
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-Akshay Iyer.
(Coffee lover. Traveller. Movieismyfirstlove. Enthusiast. Foodie.)
the closest People in my life aren’t my relatives, but my friends π
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Indeed, friends play a crucial role in our lives!
And btw if its our best friend, then we share daily joy and happiness with them in very different ways.β€π
Thanks for sharing your view @hati03nisa
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So true! True friendship is indeed GOLD!
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Glad that you agree with it @Garfieldπβ
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Thanks for writingβπΌβπΌππ agree with you
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Cheers!
Have a fantastic day!
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Same mental disorder, hell yeah! Can so much relate to 10th one. This is awesome!
Could relate to everything said. π You brought smiles.. π
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Haha.
Glad that you could relate with this.
Cheers!
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It was a pleasure read. π
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Cheers! Stay connected. Keep posting!
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I love your style of writing! It’s very attractive! Keep blogging! All the very best!
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Hey! Thanks Nusrath!
Its awesome to hear that!π
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Amazing post!
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Thanks soo much natashaaa!π
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finding a true friend is finding a precious gem! π
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Yeahhh…. you think in the same lines as me!βπ
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I love many of your points. I think my favorite is that a friend tells it like it is. A really good friend always tells me the truth. This way I know where I need to improve and my strengths. Friends are absolutely necessary!
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Yeahh, they make us realize where we need to improve and seal the deal!
They are true life saviour.
And hey! Thanks @ipuna black for stopping by.
I’m gladππ
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So true. You are welcome. My pleasure! π
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Cheers!
Happy weekend!β
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You too!
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Yeahh… They tell us where we need to improve and seal the deal!
They are our true life saviour.
And hey! Thanks for stopping by.
I’m glad.ππ
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A beautiful post celebrating all friendships! A world without friends is a lonely one indeed and often unbearable…great writing and images. π
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Yeah, they are our lifelines…..
Thanks for reading and appreciating…!
I’m glad annikaπβ
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Hmmm. Pretty detailed. And from various perspectives. Great stuff!
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Thank you for the kind words Mr.Ankur!
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Great one!
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Thankyouu james!
Much appreciated
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Very touching!
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Hey thankyouuu “Girl with a dimple”π
Happyy weekend!
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Be it father or mother to children, be it one spouse to another, be it in brother to sister, be it our Father to us His children, in any relationship, true friendship is the best thing that can happen to human beings.
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Indeed!
True friendships do take us a long way.
Loved your comment.
Thanks for your precious time!
Much appreciated.βπ
Happy weekend!
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Thanks, you are welcome. I wish you the same.
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Cheers!
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True friendships are rare and very valuable. Nice article. Thank you for sharing your views with us π
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My pleasure.
Thankyou for stopping by @deepanilamani
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What a lovely post!! For me I am lucky to have best friend we are sharing the beautiful bond sine 2 decades!!
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2 Decades… That’s just fantabulous…
Many more years to go…
Cheers!
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Yes true and thankx π
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π π
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Many thanks for visiting my blog and following. π
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Pleasure!
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